Women hate it guys...

How do you feel when the love of your life is taken by a stranger and you have to share him forever? It hurts and most couple end up with divorce. Apparently, it happened to one celebrity couple that had been married for few years ( Abby Abadi and Norman Hakim). As public, you read the news at the celebrity gossip column in the Internet like Cari.com or you might also heard it from another source eg unauthorised CNN at the office or among your friends and family. Whether you like it or not it has been an issue to most of us everyday.

Personally, I do against the idea of polygamy and I do have a bad perception about these women being second wife to a man or having an affair with a married man and etc. I always bare on mind about others' feeling before my self. Men should be loyal to your wife no matter what! It happened to my intimates and I can imagine how disaster a life can be. It doesn't hurt you if you take someone from another someone but it kills your heart you if yours is taken away.

I understand that not all women having special title as second wife are bad and my friend was one of them. She even told her husband to let his first wife to be his first priority in everything. I guess they might have their own reason to get marry.

She told me that she did aware about another person being hurt due to her action marrying someone's husband but why did she still proceed? Was it unavoidable fate? I guess only god knows. Something that is beyond our knowledge and only god knows the reason behind it. She got married at Thailand and both parents of her husband were there as their witnesses. They had to get marry there bcoz my friend (the bride)failed to get her dad to be her wali.

I pray that who ever my husband will be, I hope my marriage wont cause anybody to suffer or even hurt anyone's feeling.

Hectic a.k.a. massive a.k.a. insane = me

I've been absolutely busy at work. Mostly because I've been so generous doing others work. In another words, the other person is being too slow in completing tasks given to them. At the end of the day, I ended up with tones and piles of pending works on my desk. Like a volcano erupting with its larva and going to explode any time.

Another outlet is scheduled to be open very very soon. Meaning more and more works waiting to be done. I wanna scream and Boss I need my assistant now pleaseeeeee.... Wish my Boss is reading my blog and please try to dig deep into my heart so that you can understand how stress and awful I am now( I can imagine Fiona now with her sheepish looks). I hate to complaint and whining about my work life coz god knows how many times I will read my post over and over again and the least thing is to remember me whining and whining about life and meaningless life. I want to have a fab life and no worries at all which is almost impossible to achieve in a reality world. The best I can do is to keep on smiling and gigling at all times so that I can stay young longer and if possible forever and ever and ever.

I had a good time chatting with my mate about polygamy which is absolutely no way to most women in this earth and my respect to those who willing to share with others. I will share my thoughts about this sensitive issue in my next post perhaps soon. Till then be good guys.

My weekends - 10/1/09

It is 15min to 4am, I've been trying to force my self to sleep but failed. Therefore, I decided to write something here. Lately, I have lack of sleep almost every night and it reminds me of the time when I was at Shah Alam. I had sleeping disorder and I missed almost all classes in the morning. I will stay up until late night and mostly till dawn. May be I think a lot and worry too much about my work at office. I have loads and tons of pending work on my desk. I'm hoping that my request to change the accounting software will be approved. My newly joint company is a brand new company, so in terms of management and work procedures are still under my close observation.

Last Saturday, I took my cousin and her todlers to Taman Rimba Ampang coz we had a plan to have a picnic the next day. So, we went to survey the place that was 10min away from her house. We arrived the place around half past three and after I parked the car, we had to walked for roughly 15min before we reached the spot. The entrance fee was RM1 for adult and foc for children. The place was so much difference than the last time I went there as far as I can remember. The todlers were so excited to get into the stream and so do my cousin and I. After a while there, I came out with an idea to go for a swimming at the pool. We had two choices, one was to go to my cousin's Kak Nor and second was to go to her uncle's at Bukit Indah. After seek for permission, we headed to her uncle's around half past five and we swam until seven. Then had something at her uncle's after that and later went straight home. Actually, after went to Taman Rimba Ampang that evening we had changed our plan not to go there the next day coz we thought the place was inconvenience and troublesome to go as no car was allowed to enter. Meaning, we have to park outside and then enter by foot. I was fun.

Kids are funny and what ever things come out from their mouth are truly and purely honest. On the same day earlier, I took my cousin's todler ( Opia and Dahlia that I called Baby)to a stationery shop to take the things I have ordered for my office work the day before. In the car, I saw how dirty baby's foot was so I asked her what had happened to her foot. Was it the thing from her nose coz I saw her picked her nose at the shop. I told her to use tissue next time if she wants to pick her nose coz it was dirty and unhygienic to pick her nose in public like that and some more she touched my hands after that. She tried to defence herself by saying to me that she threw her thing on the floor after she picked her nose then she picked her nose using her left hand and use her right hand to hold my hand. I was silent for a moment then burst with laugh and keep on giggling until we reached home. Gosh! I can imagine my self having my own kids. Kids are simply genius.

Ku pendam sebuah Duka

Bercinta sudah lama
Berkasih dan bermesra
Sedang enak membuai rasa
Perpisahan tercipta
Mengapa sementara
Cerahnya cinta kita
Mendung tiba tiada ku pinta
Gelapnya suasana
Walaupun hatiku
Amat berat melepasmu
Dan rintangan mendatang sayang
Terpaksa kuleraikan
Seandainya...Kita harungi jua
Kelak punah semua sayang
Impian kau harapkanKu pasti kau kembali
Menyatu dua hati
Lebih elok cari pengganti
Tiada kau menyendiri
Tak guna disesalkan
Hakikat percintaan
Mungkin terpendam kenikmatan
Sebalik perpisahan...

Resolution + birthday wishes + confusion

I wanted to download my previous journal here in my new blog but I find it quite troublesome and not easy to do because it will require extra effort and time. So, posting my latest journal is the best thing to do coz present is more important than the past. Am I right?

Speaking of the devil, today 9th of January is my mate birthday (Zep). I wish you a very happy birthday and hope all your wishes come true. God bless you friend. I called his mobile just now and to my surprise he’s still at his office having appointment in the middle of the night for photo shooting session. Gosh! He is workaholic. Tomorrow is my office mate birthday too. To Kak Zu, wish you having the best ever birthday celebration. Heard your hubby is coming over all the way from Kulim. Hmm… hope you’ll get your special treat J

Today, I went to my cousin’s house. She was so excited telling me about her company’s annual dinner that will be held tomorrow. The theme will be ‘Wild Wild West”. She told me today that she won’t stay that long during the dinner. Her plan was to grab the door gift then off her go. I guess everybody at her office will drop their jaws down scattered on the floor knowing the fact she won’t be around at the dinner dressed up like she used to be. The funny thing was, even though she has her own mysterious plan but still incessantly asking me what she should wear on that particular day. The fact is, she is not going to be there. She keeps on asking me should she wear the wig, shouldn’t she? I am confused with her. Anyway, I made my point by telling her off that at the end of the day she would wear her wig no matter what I say. So, I’d reckon her to wear her wig. End of story. Help me god! I am confused. Good luck to her anyway.

Wow! It’s already the 9th day we are here in the year 2009. What is my new resolution? Hmm… this is tricky coz I have done most of the thing I wanted to do in life before I reach 30 except for one, obviously. When I was younger, very young and of course so much younger than today…. I have planned to get marry by the age of 27 and the latest will be by the age of 28. I guess, that will be my new resolution for year 2009. To find a boyfriend and to force him to marry me haha… that does sound desperate. Life won’t be interesting if we do not spark our life with some colours and challenges. Perhaps some of us prefer to live in a life that is so dull until you barely have anything to be remembered.

We’ll see how my performance goes this year with my new resolution in relationship. I have a vision to marry a rich man with a face like Brad Pitt (in my dream only).

Hi! everybody...

This is my very first post. I started writing blog in my friendster some time back in year 2005 when I was abroad. My friend told me how great it was to write a blog and to write what ever things that came across our mind. I guess she was right coz I've been writing ever since then until today. I have several blogs with fewer time to write them due to work commitment and etc. I used to write almost everyday when I was a student but I will try to write more occasionally from today onwards... I hope.. All these while, I have been writing in my friendster blogs for general purpose and I also have some other blogs which I cannot disclose that tuttt...... my cousin suggested me to give my self a try with blogspot. I can see how famous this website to bloggers and I think I like it. First! I need to transfer some of the things I had written in my friendster which is great to be shared with everybody. In the meantime, Hi! to everybody... Welcome to my blogspot!